CB has bright blue eyes but they definetly turned a deep shade of green earlier after a phone call from my mum telling me that i was to become an auntie again. A joyous occasion you would think but the wee barras nose was pt right out of place. I thought she would have been delighted as she is close to my brother and sil. Finally got to the bottom of it, she will have to share her Granny with another child, Now my brother doesnt exactly live round the corner, tr down the m73 and then the m6 to Bradford. We on the other hand live about 4 streets away from my Mum. Tried to reassure her that granny has enough love to share between the 3 of them. Thank goodness i will bear no more children as i think she would probably murder me in my sleep.
This kinda spured feeling deep inside of me, one i havent spoke to my brother since february and i would back down and he's as stubborn as me so he wont back down so thats a bit of a brick wal hit. Seriously if we were to have a staring out competition we would need medical treatment as we would rather sew our eye lids open then cave in. Secondly this will now be my fathers 6th grandchild, and he has'nt seen any of them in over 6 years +, the youngest he has never seen, not even sure if he knows about her. I wil never forgive my dad for what he done to CB, i'm older so i don't really care anymore what he done to me or any other adult within our little clan but he blanked CB when she was 3 after she ran up to him in tescos with her tiny arms held out for a hug. Ignore me by all means, ignore my daughter and i will never let it be forgotton. So the last few hours have been spent thinking about the old trout. He's in his 70's now, no idea where he lives or even if he's alive, i dread the day i get a call saying he's no longer on this earth as i aint paying for no funeral, would'nt even waste a pound in a cheap shop buying plastic flowers for him.
Need to get a more reliable source for the internet, neighbour was out all night and must have turned off his connection, i havent been staying up all night waiting on the light going on, i just simply could'nt sleep, not complaining the radio is rather good at this time of the morning with the exposure show so lots of new random bands to look out for.
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- 2009-11-04 @ 10:57:09
Doesnt bother me either, saying that there is a bit of venom stored away for safe keeping should i ever come across him again x
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- 2009-11-04 @ 08:29:39
You can't choose your parents, I never spoke to my Dad for 15 years right up to his death - and I don't regret it either. Some people just shouldn't be parents!
Get your Mum to speak to her to reassure her - love doesnt' lessen cos you take some out and give it to someone else, there will always be loads for her.
Your neighbour is a selfish sod - fancy going out and switching it off!!! have a good day x-
- 2009-11-04 @ 10:53:21
I hate my neighbour, all day i no internet, will need to try and get a hold of my mum on her own thing is my mum can be a bit brutal in the way she says things, i think it's all those years of being a matron in a nursing home. Shes a very straight to the point woman who dismisses alot if she thinks its daft xx
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- 2009-11-04 @ 11:33:56
Sounds very sensible to me, but yeah you maybe should speak to her first!! x
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- 2009-11-04 @ 09:03:10
tell me about it I have been pushed out of my family my dad and his number one son hardly bother with me but that doesnt bother me but Its belle I feel sorry for but she seems fine and doesnt seem to mind too much. I will never forget the fact that dad hasnt bothered though I have felt like and outsider in my family since my mom passed away 10 years ago.
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- 2009-11-04 @ 10:55:23
Familys can be so nasty, i just can't get over the fact a grown man would ignore a young child, The only concelation is that out of his 4 children none of us speak to him and he to none of us, still dreading that phone call or chap on the door though x
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- 2009-11-04 @ 11:16:01
I know that feeling and so does Jen she hasnt seen or spoken to her dad for almost 6 years but she said she wouldnt mind if she never did I feel for belle having no grandparents but her parents love her to bits and thats the main thing

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- 2009-11-04 @ 11:57:04
Familys..Who's have em!! I did chuckle at the bit where you said CB would murder you in ya sleep

Kids do get a touch of the green eyed monster but Im sure it will pass soon hun.
Do you tap into your neighbours wifi then?..My neighbour was doing that till I found out he was downloading 'stuff'!What about getting one of those dongle things?..You can get them for around a tenner a month if you shop around xx
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- 2009-11-04 @ 12:04:29
well erm why pay a tenner a month the now when i don't need too
, i dont download anything and if he's daft enough not to secure it then.....
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- 2009-11-04 @ 13:18:42
I agree! But if he turns it off its a bit annoying innit! I let my neighbough tap into mine..But when I discovered he was downloading stuff..I changed my password..He was proper pissy
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- 2009-11-04 @ 15:28:11
Forget the family.....enjoy the new addition...
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anyak
i know what it feels like to be ignored by your family
doesnt bother me now but it used to when i was a wee lassie